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Why Does My Cockatiel Like To Sit On My Shoulder: Understanding Your Bird’s Behavior

Why Does My Cockatiel Like To Sit On My Shoulder

Cockatiels are lovely and social birds that make great pets. They are known for their affectionate and playful nature and ability to form strong bonds with their owners. 

One behavior that many cockatiel owners have noticed is their bird’s tendency to perch on their shoulders. But why do cockatiels like to sit on their owner’s shoulder?

Cockatiels enjoy perching on their owner’s shoulders for various reasons. One of these is its elevated vantage point, reminiscent of its natural inclination to occupy high places like trees. 

In essence, cockatiels have a penchant for perching, which makes sitting on their owner’s shoulders a comfortable choice.

When a cockatiel sits on its owner’s shoulder, it feels like sitting with them as they would on a branch. They almost territorialize their owner’s body, allowing them to be close to their owner’s face, with which they form a bond.

Remember that training is key before you let your cockatiel sit on your shoulder. An untrained bird may not listen to you and can cause unexpected issues. 

Cockatiels can easily get startled, so teaching them to behave while perched on your shoulder is essential.

Shoulder Perching in Cockatiels

Cockatiels are known for their affectionate nature, and one of their favorite spots to perch is on their owner’s shoulder. While it may seem like a simple behavior, there are several reasons why cockatiels enjoy shoulder perching.

Comfort and Security

Cockatiels are social birds that thrive on interaction with their owners. When they perch on their owner’s shoulder, they feel close and secure, which can help reduce stress and anxiety. Additionally, the softness and warmth of the shoulder can provide a comfortable resting spot for the bird.

Vantage Point

Shoulder perching also provides cockatiels with a unique vantage point. They can observe their surroundings from this elevated position and feel part of the action. This can be especially important for birds kept in cages for extended periods.

Dominance and Territoriality

In some cases, shoulder perching can also signify dominance and territoriality. Cockatiels claim them and assert their dominance over the space by perching on their owner’s shoulder. This behavior can be more common in male birds, who may become more protective of their owner and territory.

The Bond Between Cockatiels and Their Owners

Cockatiels are popular pets because of their playful and affectionate nature. They are known to form strong bonds with their owners and enjoy spending time with them. 

Trust and Training

Trust is essential to the bond between a cockatiel and its owner. Cockatiels are naturally wary of strangers and need time to adjust to new people and surroundings. Therefore, it is crucial to establish trust with your cockatiel by spending time with it, talking to it, and offering it treats.

Training your cockatiel not only strengthens your bond but also provides mental stimulation. These intelligent birds can learn tricks, follow commands, and even talk, making training a rewarding experience.

Attention and Interaction

Cockatiels are social birds that crave attention and interaction. They enjoy being around their owners and love to play and explore. Therefore, spending quality time with your cockatiel every day is essential.

Interacting with your cockatiel can take many forms, such as talking, playing with it, or sitting quietly beside it. Cockatiels enjoy toys and puzzles that challenge their intelligence and entertain them.

Preening and Head Scratches

Preening and head scratches are two of the most critical ways cockatiels bond with their owners. Preening is the act of grooming and cleaning feathers, and cockatiels often preen each other as a sign of affection.

Head scratches are also a favorite of cockatiels, and they will often nuzzle their heads against their owners’ hands to request a scratch. Head scratches not only feel good to your pet but also help to strengthen the bond between you.

Pros and Cons of Shoulder Perching

Shoulder perching can be a fun experience for the owner and the cockatiel. However, before allowing your bird to perch on your shoulder, consider pros and cons.

Safety and Control

Shoulder perching brings the owner and bird closer, making the bird feel safe while allowing the owner to watch over them, ensuring safety and happiness.

However, shoulder perching can also pose some safety risks. If the bird becomes startled or frightened, it may fly off the owner’s shoulder and potentially injure itself. 

Additionally, if the bird is not trained correctly, it may become aggressive or territorial while perched on the owner’s shoulder.

Droppings and Biting

Another potential downside to shoulder perching is the risk of droppings and biting. Cockatiels can be messy creatures, and if the bird is perched on the owner’s shoulder, there is a risk of getting droppings on clothing or furniture. 

Additionally, if the bird becomes agitated or stressed, it may bite the owner, which can be painful and potentially dangerous.

On the other hand, some owners may find that their cockatiel is less likely to bite while perched on their shoulder, as the bird may feel more secure and less threatened.

Territorializing and Hissing

Finally, shoulder perching may also lead to territorializing and hissing. Cockatiels can be very territorial creatures, and if the bird becomes too comfortable perched on the owner’s shoulder, it may start to view the owner as a threat to its territory. This can lead to hissing, biting, and aggressive behavior.

Training Your Cockatiel for Shoulder Perching

Training your cockatiel to perch on your shoulder can be a rewarding experience for both you and your bird. However, it requires patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement. Here are some tips to help you train your cockatiel to sit on your shoulder.

Patience and Treats

Training your cockatiel to perch on your shoulder takes time and patience. Start by getting your bird comfortable with your presence. Sit near their cage and talk calmly and soothingly to them. Offer them treats through the cage bars to create a positive association with you.

Once your bird is comfortable with you, start offering treats from your hand. Gradually move your hand closer to your shoulder, rewarding your bird for stepping up onto your hand and eventually onto your shoulder.

Step Up Command

Teaching your cockatiel the “step up” command is essential for shoulder perching. Start by holding your hand near your bird’s belly and saying, “Step up” in a clear, firm voice. When your bird steps onto your hand, reward them with a treat.

Repeat this process until your bird consistently responds to the “step up” command. Once your bird is comfortable stepping onto your hand, you can train them to step up onto your shoulder.

Addressing Bad Behavior

If your cockatiel displays bad behavior while perching on your shoulder, such as biting or screaming, it’s essential to address it immediately. Gently but firmly say “no” in a clear voice and remove your bird from your shoulder. Offer them a treat when they calm down to reinforce good behavior.

It’s also important to watch for signs of discomfort or stress in your bird. If they start flapping their wings or displaying other signs of distress, gently remove them from your shoulder and offer them a treat.

Understanding Cockatiel Body Language

Cockatiels are social birds that communicating with their owners and other birds through various body language cues. Understanding these cues can help you build a stronger bond with your pet and ensure they are happy and healthy. 

Here are some essential things to look for when interpreting your cockatiel’s body language:

Posture and Gestures

Cockatiels use their posture and gestures to convey their mood and intentions. A relaxed, content bird will stand tall with its feathers smooth and its head held high. Conversely, a stressed or frightened bird will hunch its body, fluff up its feathers, and lower its head.

When your cockatiel feels playful or affectionate, they may bob their head up and down or sway back and forth. They may also puff their feathers and chirp or whistle to get your attention.

Screaming and Lunging

Screaming and lunging are two of the most common behavioral problems in cockatiels. If your bird screams excessively, it may indicate boredom, anxiety, or pain. Similarly, if your bird lunges at you or other people, it may be a sign that they are feeling threatened or territorial.

To fix these problems with your bird, figure out what’s causing them and then take action. You can try giving your bird more mental and physical activities, using positive reinforcement training, or getting help from a professional trainer or behaviorist.

Wings and Beaks

Cockatiels use their wings and beak to communicate a variety of messages. If your bird spreads its wings and flaps them rapidly, it may signify excitement or aggression. 

Conversely, if your bird tucks its wings tightly against its body, it may signify fear or discomfort.

Similarly, a cockatiel’s beak can tell much about their mood and intentions. If your bird is grinding its beak, it may be a sign of contentment or relaxation. 

However, if your bird is biting or nibbling on objects or people, it may indicate aggression or territorial behavior.